A question to people

When a coin can have two sides,
Than why a soul can't have i.e what one speaks and what one thinks inside.
people usually judge on the basis of what they think.. why can't they listen and thinks what one is saying.
People(we) are becoming selfish nowadays... why ??
Why can't we understand each other, can we?
Are we fit for these beautiful human life which is the best species in whole universe which the god gifted?
Why we can't understand each other with patience?
Can't we be good listener and thinker?
People loose their patience within seconds and they do what they should not.
We knows about coin that it is one coin but have two sides than can't we understand that a human also has two sides.
Some people shows what they are and some doesn't.
It is not that what he/she speaks is truth or what he/she mean because some are real and some are fake.
people usually loves fake one, why? why can' they understood that if someone speaks harsh that doesn't always mean they are bad.
They cant judge the people than what one can aspect for that person.
We are living in the society which is becoming enemy of each other...